We’re speaking in tongues sometimes, I fear.

According to their most recent consumer poll, Forrester Research says that 75% percent of the population is involved in some form of social media, and they’re now touting social media as “mainstream”. But I’m still skeptical that while they may be part of social networks, most average users are still not associating themselves with the term. For instance, how many times have you done a Google search for something and found yourself clicking on a link to a blog? Were you aware that it was a blog? Do you think everyone is, or is it just another link to them?

It’s like the age old argument in marketing that I love and believe wholeheartedly: people do not put themselves in ‘demographics’ or ‘target audiences’ or ‘customer segments’. They’re just people, and their relationships with the companies they do business with are defined much more simply. Their choices of businesses are based on much more human factors, and I’m afraid we marketers have a tendency to forget that.

People participating in social media are not always defining it that way. They know they’re seeking out connections and like-minded people. They may even consider themselves active online. But if the people I meet on a day to day basis are any indication, social media is still a phrase that rings foreign, even if the interactions it fosters are familar and comfortable.

I think we have to be very careful that we’re not jumping all over the place calling social media “mainstream” and, as a result, assuming that everyone and everything understands us when we geek out over this. We still need to be discussing all of these tools, ideas, and concepts in terms that fit within a business framework (if, that is, we still intend to make them a viable part of business strategy, which I think they should be).

Perhaps one of the reasons we’re having trouble convincing our CEOs and CMOs of the ROI of social media is that we’re speaking in a language we don’t share with them. (Do I think their language needs to evolve too? Heck yes. But this for another post.)

Whereas social media enthusiasts know that by saying ‘community’ we’re refering to a collection of brand enthusiasts, they may not assume that specific of a definition. When we say ‘ conversation’ we know that means an engaged, mutual and transparent dialogue, but not everyone’s definition of that word is the same, and certainly not if you’ve been sitting in the corner office for a long time under traditional rules. We have to be clearer and much less jargon-y about what we mean to achieve through these media if we are to succeed in convincing our later adopters of their worth.

Does social media hold promise for the future? You bet it does. But its long term credibility is dependent upon its evangelists (including me – and I’m working hard at it) to break down the language we use and make it translatable, understandable, and universal.

We use a lot of warm and fuzzy words because we understand that the humanity in social media is critical for it to succeed. But we need to build bridges between this world and the last, between what was once mainstream, and what we’re saying mainstream is now. The seismic shift in communication, trust, authenticity and brand equity requires it if we’re all to succeed together.

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