We’re very focused on the ROI of social media right now, the measures of success and proof of its legitimacy. Rightfully so, we’re determined to make sure that our efforts deliver or create value, mesh with our business goals, elevate our brand and integrate with our communication and outreach strategy.

But does every initiative have to succeed to be valuable? I say no.

There are plenty of examples of epic failures in social media like the Wal*Mart fiasco, and probably hundreds if not thousands of examples of smaller, quieter failures. Not all of them exploding in a fiery inferno of crashtastic glory, but just the meager whimper of defeat. Without failure, can we really ever define or appreciate success?

Failure teaches us several things, like:

Perspective. When you are the steward of a brand, its champion and sherpa, it can be really easy to avoid seeing the forest. Failing at something makes you shift your viewpoint and see things from a different angle.

Perseverance: Sound social media strategy is a long term commitment, scary though that may be for some. Getting knocked down tests your mettle, and separates those who are in it for the long haul from those who are in it for instant gratification.

Reflection. By far the hardest part of owning up to failure is the question “why?”. It’s hard to take a pragmatic stance and critical eye, and turn it on yourself. Especially if your initiative was your “baby” for a time, it can really sting to admit that you had something wrong. The best part is that in order to right the ship, you have to take stock of the real reasons why something didn’t work, and fix them. (And yes you guessed it, that in and of itself takes time, effort, and dedication.)

Engagement. Ah, the irony. I put this here because I firmly believe that many failed social media initiatives were hatched in a fishbowl, without giving a fig for the people who might actually be – *gasp* – the target of said initiative. Instead of looking at these endeavors through a different, more transparent lens, we marketers and communicators may try to use a two-way mechanism to push out a one-way message. By failing, we might look to our community for feedback, and uncover some valuable learnings.

Culture Shift. By having a candid conversation about all of the above, you may discover that there are changes you need to make to your very culture in order to allow social media to thrive. Breaking down silos, for example, or empowering and trusting people outside your communications department to forge connections with your customers.

The Definition of Success. You may have thought that driving traffic to a site was your measure of success, but when that doesn’t happen, perhaps you’ll discover that your customers want to hear from you differently. Maybe you’ll find that while downloads of your video were initially the goal, the feedback you got in the comments was enough to drive product innovation. Simply put, sometimes failure is defined by the goals you set out to achieve in the first place, but hidden successes are there all the while.

Do you think that we have to keep failing in order to ultimately triumph? Does a failed social media endeavor mean that social media itself is irrelevant or inappropriate? Can we learn to better measure success by analyzing the shortfalls? How have you dealt with something that didn’t go the way you planned? I want to know what you think.