You can’t deny that Gary Vaynerchuck has passion. I think it seriously just drips from him.
He’s got a video up on his site from a couple of years ago, talking about the need to highlight the good work and the good people out there. He kicked it over to me for consideration, rekindling the notion that we need to do more of this. It’s a simple message, but it matters. Here’s why.
The velocity of the web makes it so easy, fast, and inexpensive to spread information.
But the truth is that the bad stuff has always moved faster and farther (even before the web took the world by storm). It’s the whole “have to turn and look at the car wreck” thing. We thrive on controversy. Feed on others’ shortcomings. Feel empowered somehow when we sanctimoniously point out where people or businesses have gone wrong in our eyes.
I’ve felt and seen it a lot lately, and perhaps Gary was reading my mind or heard me say so. The rash of impatient, reactionary #FAIL declarations day in and day out. The social media lynch mobs. Entitlement and opportunism. Criticisms and “advice” that are not so constructive. Judgmental behavior and comments based on precious little context or information. And all of them wielded through easily accessible online channels, sometimes carelessly and without regard for the people on the other end.
I’m sure there’s some sociological or psychological pile of stuff about what makes us do that. But Gary’s trying to make sure we take time to do the opposite, and I’m glad. Because I need to put my money where my mouth is and rather than lamenting the existence of the bad stuff, I too can shift my perspective and shine a spotlight on the great examples.
There are promising organizations being built and fostered to do good with the technologies we’ve created.
There are displays of humanity, generosity, wit, humor, and smarts all over the place. I’m on the lucky end of lots of those folks, too. There are brilliant writers, helpful content creators, positive-minded businesses that are trying to improve the communities around them, whether virtual or concrete or both.
It would be really hard for me to draw up a list without excluding someone, so I’ll probably take a different approach that I’ll have to think about. But I hope you’ll mark your calendar for Good People Day on April 3rd, 2010 and do something to focus on the good people and ideas that surround you.
Whatever that means for you is great. Blog it, tweet it, podcast it, make a video. Or just pick up the phone and call someone and tell them they matter to you. I think that counts, too. If you publish it, tag it #GPD10 so folks can see it.
It sure can’t hurt to make a conscious effort to showcase the good stuff. We’ll always have more than enough evidence of the ugly side to go around.
You in?
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Nice post Amber. GREAT idea Gary! I’m with you Amber. I’ve been disturbed over those who use Social Media to try to make others look bad, or beneath them in some way. Questioning credentials, digging at personalities, saying why someone is doing something wrong….all very destructive and completely unnecessary.
Focusing on a day to pay attention to the things we like about people, to point out those, whether they be “Social Famous” or not, is needed. It’s done on different days of the week already, but to point out a major effort can only be positive!
Nice post Amber. GREAT idea Gary! I’m with you Amber. I’ve been disturbed over those who use Social Media to try to make others look bad, or beneath them in some way. Questioning credentials, digging at personalities, saying why someone is doing something wrong….all very destructive and completely unnecessary.
Focusing on a day to pay attention to the things we like about people, to point out those, whether they be “Social Famous” or not, is needed. It’s done on different days of the week already, but to point out a major effort can only be positive!
Well this is a simple decision! I’m in, Amber. I think people talk often about doing good, but rarely dedicate the time to actually doing it. We have two months…wohoo! My blog post is ready…
Well this is a simple decision! I’m in, Amber. I think people talk often about doing good, but rarely dedicate the time to actually doing it. We have two months…wohoo! My blog post is ready…
Amber,
Thanks for writing this post. I just finished reading a similar post over at Danny Brown’s blog and wrote one earlier this week on my own. We have gotten to the point where we move so quickly we don’t think about the impact of our words on others.
We all need to take a moment to relax and think about each other before we expound on the negatives. Let’s take some time to think about who we can help and thank for how they are making the world a better place.
Thanks for the reminder. I’m looking forward to celebrating Good People Day.
Amber,
Thanks for writing this post. I just finished reading a similar post over at Danny Brown’s blog and wrote one earlier this week on my own. We have gotten to the point where we move so quickly we don’t think about the impact of our words on others.
We all need to take a moment to relax and think about each other before we expound on the negatives. Let’s take some time to think about who we can help and thank for how they are making the world a better place.
Thanks for the reminder. I’m looking forward to celebrating Good People Day.