Core messages. Key messages. Messages, messages. We really put a lot of stock in that word, don’t we?

Messages are built to be heard, and we feel like we’ve been successful if our message reaches someone’s ears. But that’s not enough anymore. And if you think your endgame in all this social stuff is to deliver a message, you’re going to lose.

Messages aren’t tangible. And as much as we marketers would like them to be, they’re not retainable for very long. Something will always come and replace them in our minds – something more timely, relevant, or momentarily interesting.

What people cling to are experiences. They don’t always have to be earth shattering, but they matter. I don’t remember your tagline *unless* I can relate that tagline to an experience I’ve had with you (or in spite of you). I don’t hear your “core values” because you labored over them in a board room. I *understand* your core values because you demonstrate them to me through the way you do business with me.

Social media isn’t just a message delivery mechanism. (Actually, I’ll submit that marketing, advertising, and all the other communication disciplines aren’t either, but that’s for another post perhaps). You can argue with me until the cows come home that awareness matters, and I’ll grant you that.

But awareness only translates – only *matters* – when that awareness makes me want to have an experience of some kind. With your company. With the people at your company. With your product, your service, your blog, all the cool content on your site. An experience that will ultimately drive home all those messages you so badly want me to hear.

But hear this trick: it won’t be because you gave the message to me in your words. It will be because the experience gave *me* the inspiration to create messaging of my own. It might be what you intended, but it might not. And it’ll never, ever be because you scripted it, or told me what to think. It’ll be because you gave me something worth talking about.

So if you think your end game is to get me to hear a message, I challenge you to think otherwise. Maybe your end game is to get me to create the message and find my own ways of communicating it. Maybe?

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