Way back in March this year, I finally got to meet my friend Dave Murray in person, in Detroit. Dave and I had chatted several times online through various channels, but never had the chance to sit down and share some words in person.
Boy, I had no idea what I was in for.
The night before the Module Conference in Detroit, a pile of speakers and such went out for dinner at a fabulous Lebanese restaurant (whose name, of course, escapes me). The food was great. The conversation was hysterical.
I was lucky enough to sit next to Dave, who shared a completely and utterly hilarious story that involved a shoe and some Jagermeister. I won’t out Dave here with all the details of the story, but suffice it to say anyone who’s experienced a little nuttiness in college would relate. The best part was Dave’s storytelling. He has a knack for timing and facial expression, and a nearly-deadpan delivery laced with just enough self deprecation to be perfect. In short, he’s phenomenally funny.
The whole lot of us at the table just rolled with laughter, and since March, that story has come up more than once in conversation. And I’m grateful that Dave and his delightful wife Jenni have become good friends and people I’m just glad to know.
So late last week when I retrieved a box from my post office, I was curious to see Dave’s name on the return address. And I couldn’t imagine what was inside. It was an awfully big box for a holiday card.
The picture here is what was in the box. I’m told the other shoe made its way to another friend who shared in the joke. (And incidentally, Dave had to tell the post office he was mailing snow globes to get the booze in the mail. Awesome.) I absolutely and utterly laughed my face off. And Dave included a personal, heartfelt note that warmed me to my toes when I read it, in between the snorts of laughter.
The beauty in this is that, for the holidays, Dave could have sent a card or a box of chocolate or whatever. He could have sent a letter or a set of reindeer mugs. But Dave remembered how much we laughed and laughed over the story of the booze and the shoe. And he took the time to buy the stuff, package it up, and send it off so that we could laugh about it one more time. Now, I’ve got a crazy fun, visible reminder of that dinner and our friendship that has an esteemed place on my office shelf.
So thanks, Dave, for the awesome gift and the chance to laugh with you all over again. I hope that’s the first of many dinners and stories we’ll share together. Happy New Year. 🙂
Thank you Amber, for sharing the story AND Dave. I followed your link…I LOVE finding new and awesome people!
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Thank you Amber, for sharing the story AND Dave. I followed your link…I LOVE finding new and awesome people!
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Wow… that story has been told multiple times since that evening. I am not sure how it was brought up in Detroit but we heard it after a #tweetea event… Classic story which is legendary.
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Wow… that story has been told multiple times since that evening. I am not sure how it was brought up in Detroit but we heard it after a #tweetea event… Classic story which is legendary.
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Amber,
You are very welcome.
I’m happy it put a smile on your face! Thank you for your kind words and most of all, for your friendship. It is a true blessing. I’m pretty sure the restaurant we ate at started with an “A”, but I can’t recall the name either.
I’m honored that my gift was worthy of your office shelf. That makes me smile.
I’d write more, but I have to wrestle alligators for charity. It’s what I do…
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Awesome post and cool gift. I’m a big believer in adding the personal touch to anything.
Kudos Dave!
Amber,
You are very welcome.
I’m happy it put a smile on your face! Thank you for your kind words and most of all, for your friendship. It is a true blessing. I’m pretty sure the restaurant we ate at started with an “A”, but I can’t recall the name either.
I’m honored that my gift was worthy of your office shelf. That makes me smile.
I’d write more, but I have to wrestle alligators for charity. It’s what I do…
.-= DaveMurr´s last blog ..Twelve Life Lessons of 2009 – #11 Don’t Forget to Laugh =-.
Awesome post and cool gift. I’m a big believer in adding the personal touch to anything.
Kudos Dave!
Dave,
The restaurant is Al-Ameer. One of my FAVORITE middle eastern restaurants in the Detroit area (and there are plenty). I wasn’t there that night because I was traveling and couldn’t make it to the conference until the day after that dinner… but I was jealous to have missed the shawarma at Al Ameer, and that I had to hear your hilarious tale at a different venue. 🙂
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Dave,
The restaurant is Al-Ameer. One of my FAVORITE middle eastern restaurants in the Detroit area (and there are plenty). I wasn’t there that night because I was traveling and couldn’t make it to the conference until the day after that dinner… but I was jealous to have missed the shawarma at Al Ameer, and that I had to hear your hilarious tale at a different venue. 🙂
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You see Dave… like I’ve been saying… You. Are. Awesometastic!
You see Dave… like I’ve been saying… You. Are. Awesometastic!
Wow, I just love hearing about hilarious inside jokes. I about fell over laughing out how funny this one probably was. Jagermeister and a sneaker. LOL!
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Wow, I just love hearing about hilarious inside jokes. I about fell over laughing out how funny this one probably was. Jagermeister and a sneaker. LOL!
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Just added a 2010 goal to my list.
“Meet Dave Murray and have him re-tell the story.”
Jägerbombs are on me, Dave.
Thanks for sharing that one, Amber.
DJ Waldow
Director of Community, Blue Sky Factory
@djwaldow
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Just added a 2010 goal to my list.
“Meet Dave Murray and have him re-tell the story.”
Jägerbombs are on me, Dave.
Thanks for sharing that one, Amber.
DJ Waldow
Director of Community, Blue Sky Factory
@djwaldow
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Dave is at the very top of my fabulous friends list! Thanks for letting your blog community know about him. We need more people like Dave and Jenni in this world.
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Dave is at the very top of my fabulous friends list! Thanks for letting your blog community know about him. We need more people like Dave and Jenni in this world.
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